I watch people getting this obsession every single day .. It's like a disease , i think now i have an idea about what is happening ; people have a lot of dreams when they are young , as they are getting older some of that dreams come true and the rest starts to fade away one after another , and the amount of time it takes is directly proportional to how stubborn you are ,
after the last dream is gone you feel lost , nothing to do nowhere to be "john mayer:)* so u start looking for a new dream an easy one but this one it is not your own dream , you are dreaming about getting something to dream for u ,, sounds easier..
We were programed like that at a certain age we start looking for the most suitable mate to continue the great sea of sand by being just a dot ,, i'm not against love or marriage they are really beautiful .. They are the miracle of life ! But they are not the Life ..
Just keep your own dreams don't let them fade away :*
